Drag Officiants

"It never occurred to me before now to hire a drag queen to officiate our wedding.  but it was actually the best decision we could've made. funny, serious when necessary, and just so charismatic.  great at working the crowd and put everyone at ease." - Ed, Manhattan

What Makes This Different

Most officiants disappear into the background.
Most performances take over the room.

Drag Officiant does neither.

Instead, it:

• holds attention without demanding it
  
  

• creates permission for joy without forcing it
  
  

• keeps the ceremony legible for every guest in the room
  
  

The result is a ceremony that feels intentional, celebratory, and real.

Ceremonies Offered

Drag Officiant works across a range of ceremonies, including:

• Weddings & Commitments
  
  

• Elopements & Intimate Ceremonies
  
  

• Vow Renewals
  
  

• Queer & Chosen-Family Ceremonies
  
  

• Destination Ceremonies
  
  

Each ceremony is shaped by tone, context, and the people present — never by template.

[Explore Ceremonies →]

Tone, Always by Design

Drag Officiant ceremonies operate on a clear tone spectrum:

• Subtle — elegant, restrained, lightly elevated
  
  

• Celebratory — joyful, warm, expressive
  
  

• Iconic — bold, theatrical, unmistakably drag
  
  

Where your ceremony lands is discussed and agreed upon in advance.

Nothing is improvised without consent.
Nothing is sprung on your guests.

The Officiant

Ceremonies are led by Stasi — a licensed officiant and drag artist with a strong understanding of how rooms work.

Stasi brings:

• professional officiant authority
  
  

• drag artistry held with discipline
  
  

• calm collaboration with planners and vendors
  
  

The drag is visible.
The responsibility is quiet.

[Meet the Officiant →]

Legality & Professionalism

Drag Officiant ceremonies are:

• legally binding where applicable
  
  

• properly ordained and registered
  
  

• compatible with professional wedding timelines
  
  

Planners, venues, and families can expect clarity and preparedness at every step.

Who This Is (and Isn’t) For

Drag Officiant may be right for you if:

• you want joy with intention
  
  

• you value preparation over improvisation
  
  

• you want something non-traditional but not chaotic
  
  

Drag Officiant is not right if:

• you’re looking for a surprise performance
  
  

• you want drag to override the ceremony
  
  

• you want something rushed or unstructured
  
  

Fit matters — and is discussed honestly.

Availability

Drag Officiant works a limited number of ceremonies each month.

Primary regions:

• New York City
  
  

• Surrounding areas
  
  

Destination ceremonies are considered with advance notice.

Begin

If this approach feels aligned, you’re welcome to inquire.

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